Oh you like jokes uh? I do too...however, the forums are suppose to be for business...and you obviously have some insight on the business of fe, but you don't know exactly what you are talking about just yet...that's why you revert to humor...which is fine...however, if you ever want a lesson in the final expense business, I would be more than happy to enlighten you...and I'll leave my "junk" out of it...
TPA's figures are closer to being right than you might think. If you know someone who is actually spending 50K per year on leads, then I'll be willing to bet they are doing at least 5 times the business you are. I doubt you actually know someone who is doing that though.
As for your residuals not staying on the books, I hate that for you. Maybe you're just not selling the right product or maybe you're selling to people you ought not be selling to.