Where do I begin?
I like to think I have an attractive and easy going personality. I know I'm easy to get along with. I became fully licensed in December of 2011 and am being mentored at an Indy firm. I spend a lot of time researching and learning products, strategies, etc. I do not have a finance back ground but have a bachelors in science so I know I have a lot to learn in this field. Previous job was high end sales in a luxury business.
Now my mentor and I have sent out one set of 5000 mailers for one on one dinner meetings which resulted in 10 responses. Of those 10, 6 canceled and I sat down with 4. Of those four only one has actually set a follow up appointment, actually 2 follow up appointments which I will get to in a moment. This particular prospect brought her statements and to my pleasure and after thorough suitability wanted the guarantees of a variable annuity and gmwb rider/death benefit. She has over a million sitting in cds, savings, checking, stocks and iras. Only problem was after the second follow up she seemed less motivated. She wouldn't give me the cost basis on current investments that she wanted to rollover. She wouldn't provide any info other than name, address, and phone number. Well this morning I got the call that she wanted to cancel her appointment cause she "has too much else going on right now.". WTF?!? $200 dollar dinner, 2 follow up meeting, many hours spent prepping apps, cost basis, etc. Rearranged prior appointments with what I thought were less motivated prospects cause this woman didn't want to wait for our normal 2-3 week out scheduling.
I know this business has high highs and low lows, but how do you all deal with letting 30k in commissions slip through your fingers. I think if i wasnt starving and had steady referrals and income coming in this pill would be easier to swallow. I'm determined to do well in this business but this was the straw that broke my back. I have had several prospects cancel on me last minute in the past couple months, but this was a really big straw. Any advice, pick me up type advice will be greatly appreciated. Criticisms will be accepted to....
I like to think I have an attractive and easy going personality. I know I'm easy to get along with. I became fully licensed in December of 2011 and am being mentored at an Indy firm. I spend a lot of time researching and learning products, strategies, etc. I do not have a finance back ground but have a bachelors in science so I know I have a lot to learn in this field. Previous job was high end sales in a luxury business.
Now my mentor and I have sent out one set of 5000 mailers for one on one dinner meetings which resulted in 10 responses. Of those 10, 6 canceled and I sat down with 4. Of those four only one has actually set a follow up appointment, actually 2 follow up appointments which I will get to in a moment. This particular prospect brought her statements and to my pleasure and after thorough suitability wanted the guarantees of a variable annuity and gmwb rider/death benefit. She has over a million sitting in cds, savings, checking, stocks and iras. Only problem was after the second follow up she seemed less motivated. She wouldn't give me the cost basis on current investments that she wanted to rollover. She wouldn't provide any info other than name, address, and phone number. Well this morning I got the call that she wanted to cancel her appointment cause she "has too much else going on right now.". WTF?!? $200 dollar dinner, 2 follow up meeting, many hours spent prepping apps, cost basis, etc. Rearranged prior appointments with what I thought were less motivated prospects cause this woman didn't want to wait for our normal 2-3 week out scheduling.
I know this business has high highs and low lows, but how do you all deal with letting 30k in commissions slip through your fingers. I think if i wasnt starving and had steady referrals and income coming in this pill would be easier to swallow. I'm determined to do well in this business but this was the straw that broke my back. I have had several prospects cancel on me last minute in the past couple months, but this was a really big straw. Any advice, pick me up type advice will be greatly appreciated. Criticisms will be accepted to....
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